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Showing posts with label Missionary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Missionary. Show all posts

Sunday, January 5, 2014

January 5, 2014 Woot! Holy Missionary Batman!

Woot! Holy Missionary Batman!

Or as I said in the MTC, "holy time to teach a lesson Elder"
You just replace Batman with Elder, the guys really liked it. Anyway...

This week has been a little hard. We got a tiny bit lazy and we didn't meet the goals we set like we've done the previous 2 weeks. yikes!

Lee Yun-Jo 이윤조 is honestly the perfect investigator. He recognizes the good feelings that come from the spirit and he wants to keep our commitments. He's been to church twice and he only needs to attend one more time before we can get him baptized. He accepted the soft baptismal commitment which is, "Yun-Jo, as you keep the commandments and as you feel the promptings of the holy spirit, will you be baptized if you indeed receive that witness that it is true?"

We haven't got him with a date yet because he says, "Yes, I will get baptized but I don't want to go so fast you know, I used to be Buddhist and these things take time, I don't know like, I kind of want to see Salt Lake City first before I make a decision to join your church and all, don't get me wrong you know cause I like um, I like you guys and I love your church it's very clean and simple and usually has good food but, we will see. Yes when I know that it is true and maybe after a bit of time I will get baptized, yes."
-kinda thing....
see what I mean. 

We gotta get him reading the book of mormon and praying you know! Come on man!

He says that he tries reading a little from the book of mormon, but it's often confusing, sometimes has hard words and it talks in a kind of old style of language like the bible. So instead he'll go on the internet or whatever and learn more about Brigham Young and pioneers and stuff! It's crazy how smart he is and how addicted to research he is. Like what's up man, you're not going to feel that it is true from an internet article about native americans... you got to open the book man!

Anyway, of course I'm going "slow" with him as he asks and not pushing him past his limit. We'll get him soon. I think this week we could have a baptismal date from him if he prays and reads like we've always committed him to do.

Lee Hyun-Suk 이현숙 didn't come to church again. We visit him a lot. Often he isn't there, but also often he is there, says that he will come to church with us and then doesn't answer the door! Ouch! What are we going to do with that kid.

There's some others and what-not but those are our highlighted work efforts. We are really focusing on those two and as usual street contacts so we can get more investigators. I definitely need to puck up and testify to these intimidating Koreans. Usually they like Americans, but I still don't know how to talk and it's often awkward and challenging for me. I try bearing testimony and sometimes they'll like run away and I have to chase them down and give them a simple mormon.org card with our phone number on it. phew.

But I am really happy about Lee Yun-Jo. He's going to be baptized I know it. Meeting with him lifts my spirits and lets me know that the Lord has prepared his children to come back to him and that some of my efforts are working in favor of a souls salvation. 

I was a little down about not trying my best and not knowing how I'd ever get the language and not meeting our goals when a ward member pulled me outside the church and opened up her trunk. She told me that she wanted to show how grateful she was because of how hard I've been trying, so she gave me some expensive truffles. It really made me happy. I know that I have all of you praying for me and rooting for me waaaaay over there in America, but it's hard sometimes when it's just us two against Korea and no one really says, "good try Elder" or "keep it up, you'll get one next time". Having a Korean rooting for me really lifted me and gave me some more energy to keep trying. I think I'll be good. So much work though....
So now just for some fun info, not missionary stuff.

Korean Culture is kind of awesome! Guess what we did for new years. So instead of trying to stay up for just midnight and drinking some sparkly or whatever... it's not bad, but I like this is better!

We woke up at like 5:30 and went outside to meet the ward. We hiked up a mountain in Seoul and waited in the cold for the sunrise!
Wow!


A bunch of sky scrapers and lights of the city....
gets a little brighter
Sky starts turning a little big orange and now you can make out the river...
gets a little brighter
More people start showing up and the whole mountain top is stuffed with Koreans all on their phones and cameras trying to tell all their friends about it or taking pictures of it instead of actually enjoying it haha...
gets a little brighter
Then, then then, the sun slowly peaks out and everyone is drenched in orangy-yellow light and we all cheer.
Then we hike down and make sure our hands are still circulating and eat the traditional New years meal with the ward. (Koreans eat a traditional Korean dish - Dak mondu guk (떡만두국) - and it's kinda like how Americans eat a specific dish for thanksgiving, turkey potatoes yams stuffing, except for Koreans it's rice and mondu (만두) cooked a specific way.... yum.)

So.... later in the week.

We're 전도ing along (proselyting) and we hear some Asians canna speaka da english! 
So we're like, Woah!
So we chase em' down and start speaking english with them.
One is a Chinaman another is a Japanese and the third is a Korean.
The Chinaman really liked how I could speak Chinese and Korean and English, he thought I was a genius. They tell us that they're all English teachers and that's why they speak together in English, cause that's their common tongue. They are celebrating their last day in Korea before the three friends split up and go back to their original countries namely, Japan and China. They wanted to eat a crazy Korean Dish!!!! We asked if we could join them.... so....

What do you get with two Americans, a Japanese man, a Korean and a Chinaman in a fish restaurant.....?
I'll tell you.

Octopus!!!
Woah!!!!

They bring it out on a plate freshly chopped up, and I guess the nerves of Octopi don't die very fast because the whole plate was alive and wriggling. I'll send you a video! gah!

We're like poking at it, "wake up!" you know and the suction things will stick to your chopstick.... so creepy....

Everyone ate one (including Elder Luker) and I couldn't believe it. You put it in your mouth and it moves around and sucks onto your tongue and teeth and the top of my mouth. I had to bite it dead..

. I didn't want it to go down still sucking and choke me to death. It was very chewy and I got it to stop moving and then swallowed it.

Yep, haha. And don't call me gross, you gotta embrace the culture, come on! live a little, no regrets, that's like my only chance to do that, plus, what a story! haha

So 화이팅 (fighting!) everybody! Love ya!

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

December 13, 2013 - My Last MTC P-Day!!!!

Honestly, it's a little weird because they told us the majority of the people leaving the mtc get their ticket for either Monday or Tuesday, but mostly Monday. I'm district leader, and I went to get our notices from the mail, and my whole district is leaving Sunday morning. I swear it was like Christmas that day and I was Santa Claus. "Hey, Buckwalter, are they here yet? Have you checked the mail? where's our travel plans!? Hey Buckwalter!"
and I checked and I checked and finally they came and they said Sunday!!??
We report to the travel office with all our luggage at 2a.m.
We then ride a bus to the Salt Lake airport around 6
I lose my companion as he flies to Denver (haha sucker...)
I go strait to San Fransisco. (so basically half our district for some reason has to go to Denver and then to San Francisco  while I and a few others go strait to San Fransisco and have like 3 hours to chill and maybe get some pass-along-cards out)
After I see my companion again, and the rest of my district, we all get on a flight to Korea. I'll be in Korea like Monday morning I think... Remember time changes

TIME TRAVEL IS POSSIBLE!!!!!   Yes!

Anyway,
My singing last week went great! We have pictures. We all had matching scarves and we sang a capella carols. There was legit Christmas food and staff and it was incredible. Jenny Oaks Baker was also there and accompanied us on a song. She was on the other side of the gym also entertaining. It was way way awesome! We made a lot of people happy and the shrimp was incredible.

Ya that's right, I sang with Jenny Oaks Baker.
anyway. (to some family who care anyway)

Umm, today was our last service project for the mtc. We clean a chapel early early in the morning every Friday. As we clean, there's always this weird old lady who wakes up early to practice on the organ. It's really strange and kind of funny. Every week, we're just cleaning out trash and toilets and she's just sitting in the dim-lit chapel playing quiet hymns. It's kind of awkward and awesome. So today, whether she knew it or not, we got a picture with her playing behind us. :) haha. It's super funny. I'm going to miss that Grandma.

I don't know, just all of us in gloves with our cleaners and this random lady playing hymns behind us.
super awesome! :D

So I love you all. I'm a bit nervous and scared. I just hope that I can use the spirit effectively and do some real work. gah! okay.

yep thank you all! :D
-Elder Buckwalter

December 6, 2013 - Hey Hey!

So, holy cow there is a lot to tell.

I'm district leader now. The Lord knows why, I don't know. But basically I have to get mail and conduct all our meetings and follow up on everybody's goals. If there are problems in our district, I either catch them or have them reported to me and then I send them to the branch president. I have a couple more meetings than I used to, yikes, but It makes me want to be a better example and work harder to be on time and to use all my time and to speak as much Korean as I can. It's more work but it's more blessings.

Tonight I'm singing in a cool caroling group for the staff of the MTC dinner party. I have a pitch-pipe and we're going to be all in matching scarfs (the 9 of us). I'm excited.

My companion and Elder Gehrig are on splits right now going to see the salt-lake temple. All internationals get to go see Salt-Lake. I'm on splits with Elder Flinders, he's on the computer next to me writing his family.

My companion got a Lego Star Wars advent Calendar from his family. Every morning we open a part of the box and build a speeder or a gungan with a spear or something. 

Um, we leave to Korea in 10 days. I feeling a lot of comfort in the language as I prepare to leave. I was working so hard, and now a lot of what I've learned is coming quickly to my head and it makes me happy. I know that the schedule is of God, and that it's time to hit the streets of Korea. If I stayed here, it wouldn't be as productive for my language and testimony as it could be if I just go to Korea. I'm sure I could still learn, but I've capped the rate at which I learn. Now I'm primed for the rate at which I will learn with the natives.

We were going to see M. Russel Ballard, but he got snowed in and couldn't speak to us, but I'm pretty sure we'll get someone Tuesday.

Ya and honestly, just love everyone. There's where I've found the most success. Being a leader and teaching every day is often a struggle. But If you do it with true sincere interest in the welfare of those you serve, it becomes easy and earns true respect. I love my friends and my teachers and every Korean I see. 

Friday, November 29, 2013

Happy Thanksgiving!! ... from the MTC

Thanksgiving in the MTC  Thursday, November 28, 2013

The dinner was really great! We had real potatoes! Pie, some weird yummy broccoli, delicious turkey and I loved their green beans. The only thing I didn't like was their yams.
There's a member of our district who is a little off on the holidays.... don't know why.... but it was weird sitting next to him as he grudgingly ate a bowl of cereal on Thanksgiving day. It was weirder having sister Pratt fast on Thanksgiving, what was up with that?

Ya, my first Thanksgiving away from home or family. It was powerful like unto all the thanksgivings, but not MY thanksgiving. I would've liked to go around the table being thankful, or drawing turkeys on the paper-cover of the table, or going to get a christmas tree, or playing games or watching movies or singing songs. Without those things, it was a bit sad. But the MTC people did the best they could do with us, and it was definitely a fun holiday anyways. 

We did a service project.... We made 350,000 meals for the church's humanitarian program. Their just like rice and oats that you can add water to and heat up... but for those in need of humanitarian food.... I'm sure it's a miracle and we all helped save lives!

We also watched a wonderful movie about the willy handcart company called Ephraim's Rescue. It's kind of like the mormony version of thanksgiving... the pioneers.

But the funniest thing we got to do... and I don't know if you'll be able to find a picture of it from Ellsworth or Smith or Bishop.... but the four of us.... okay... hold on....
So The president's wife held a primary program. Seriously. She had us sing "over the river and through the woods"... we did a lot of childrens songs and childrens games. I swear she must have been a primary leader before she was MTC president because she must have done this program before and we loved it.

We told the story of thanksgiving. She was the narrator, and whenever she mentioned a character in the story, whoever was playing that character had to run up to a microphone and say a phrase.

She gave us pieces of paper before the program started, while we were singing prelude songs, and when the time came, we all walked up to the stage to get dressed in our costumes and learn our lines.

The pilgrim men had those big hats and had honker guns, and whenever Sister nally said, "pilgrim men" in the story, the pilgrim men in their big hats (with buckles) walked up to the microphone and said, "bang bang bang!" as they honked their guns. It sounded like the honkers and dingers on sesame street. 'bang bang bang!" (honk honk honk) it was hilarious.
Their were indian men who said deeply, "big and braaave"
Indian woman who said, "shh shh shh"
Pilgrim woman who said, "mercy mee"
a Pilgrim minister who held up a bible and shouted, "Haaaaalelulia!"

And me, Bishop, Ellsworth and Smith were the turkeys that got hunted and shot by the honker pilgrim men.... Whenever she said "turkeys" in the story... we had to go up to the microphone in our funny glasses with a red balloon hanging off of our necks and a bunch of crazy feathers and go, "gobblegobblegobblegobble" as we flapped our elbows up and down.

... And we died and got eaten.

Oh oh oh oh oh oh!! and the musical numbers today were a bit lax, because it was more of an activity instead of a devotional.... so the musical numbers were not hymns but one of our musical numbers were actually the Joseph and Technicolor dreamcoat medley! So a girl with a great voice went up as a narrator and sang a verse or two from all the scenes in Joseph and summed up a bit of the entire musical. She sang things like, "A pharo's story, go go go joseph, way way back many centuries ago, ect."  and we all singed along going, "ah-ah, any dre-e-eam, any dream, any dre-e-am" it was way fun!!! it made me miss you guys and cry a little bit but I had soooo much fun at the thanksgiving program! :D



Snippets from Elder Buckwalter's Letters

The truth is, all good things come from God. All negative things come from Satan. Our minds are both divine because we are spirit children of our heavenly father. but our minds are also fallen because of the flesh and natural man within us during this probationary state. The only means by which good things happen to us, is by God's grace. Every good thing you have or can think of, is a gift to you from God... and I'm sure there are many you don't even know you have. If we are wanting or needing or required to do any thing, it is only by God that we can do it, he gave us our bodies and he gave us the gift of agency to choose how to use it. He oversees every action and occurrence and there is nothing that happens on this earth save he would allow it. He will not tempt us above that we are able. 

......

I know God has called me on a mission. Knowing that purpose helps me a lot. I often think of home and desire to do some of the things I left behind when I came here. But it's always for an instant at longest that I think of those things. Because right after I think of that, I am reminded of my purpose and why I'm here. I'm reminded that I've been called to people in Korea, and God needs and has asked me to help him bring his children back to him. I think of how important this work is, that I couldn't be doing anything better than the things the Lord has need of me to do.




Anyanghashimnika / 안녕하십니까 November 22, 2013

On Nov 22, 2013, at 11:59 AM, Elder Wesley Buckwalter wrote:


This language is ridiculous, it's on and off... I feel like I got this sometimes and I also feel like it's not even a language, rather my teacher is just making sounds up to freak us out and play with us.

The temple is closing soon, so this'll be my last time at the provo temple, I think I'll be going to Seoul Temple once a month so.... the next time I'm going to be at the temple is in Korea!!!!!

I have to be honest, the mtc is starting to make me ancy. I know I still have a lot to work on, but I kinda want to just hit the streets you know, come on, let me at em'. I think it's like 23 days left.

So, some quick funny stories.

Sister Giles folks are vacationing in Hawaii without her.... and they sent her an authentic pineapple I guess to be funny, but it was actually super super super tasty, the sweetest fruit in the universe oh my gosh!  and it was really funny and messy and awesome!

Ummm. Elder Smith, has finally started understanding the prayers, so just before gym time... the coach guy with the whistle asks for a volunteer to pray and Smith always raises his hand. Umm... probably on purpose he prayed as follows:

Hananim Aboji,  하나님 아버지
Dear Father in Heaven
Um shik er zhu shyo so kamsaderimnida  음식을 주셔서 감사드립니다
We're thankful for this food
Um shik er  /  chuk bok hey zhu shi op so so   /   kamsaderimnida 
음식을  /  축복해 주시옵소서 /  감사드립니다
This food    /   please bless    / thank you   (this is not a complete sentence, but it's what he said)
Jesucerisido eh irumero Kidoderimnida Amen.
예수 그리스도 의 기도드립니다 아멘
In the name of Jesus Christ Amen. 

It's funny because, you can either thank god for things or ask him to bless things.... I'm not good enough to know how to say we're thankful for and please bless _blank_. But he said it.... it was so bad haha. and right before gym time haha.

When we start a hymn, whoever chooses the hymn says, "1 2 3, start!"
Well, Elder Flinders was starting the hymn and said, "hana, dul, set, ka jok! / 하나,들,샛, 가족!"
He was supposed to say Shi jak 시작 which means start but "ka jok 가족"  means family!

1...2...3........Start!  <---  He was supposed to say.
1....2.....3.... Family!  <---  What he said.

hahahaha

Anyway. My companion is really british. He played the oboe for a choir number the other day. He was really good. It was a short notice thing, he just went up and said, "I see that you have an oboe line on the music, Can I play that?" .... so the day of, he played it for a member of the seventy on the tuesday devotional. I was singing in the tenor section... I was supposed to be watching the conductor. Mtc choir is really fun and spiritual, I'm thankful for that.

Um, I love all you guys. I can't think of anything else to say but thanks for your prayers and your support in any form! I love letters, "dear elder". I love emails. I love treats! I'm especially grateful for all the funds supporting me out here.

The church is true, in Korea too, of all things, it's still true there. haha.
God loves you and I hope you see him blessing you, please give yourself to him so he can shape you to your full potential. I've tried my own way and I've tried his way.... and I got to say, his way works better....

See ya next week.

Elder Buckwalter



Friday, November 8, 2013

Weeks go by so fast!

Every day feels long and relatively the same, but every week feels like only days.
I feel like I wrote all of you just 4 days ago.

If you've seen the picture of my teacher/investigator.... he said he would commit to baptism on December 14th if he could know it was true. He's already a member of the church but, it still feels super real and so awesome.

This week has been the hardest working week I've had here yet. I think it's because I understand better what I want to do here and I realize how much ground I still have to run before I'm the missionary I want to be.
I should have been studying those scripture masteries and those key doctrines relating to lessons in PMG. If I just generally knew what each lesson was and a key scripture to use for each, I'd be so ahead right now. Seriously, I need to get those scriptures down!!! and I just wish I had experience in the field cause I'm such a greeny.
 

 
Hey, by the way, thanks you guys for the things you've said to me, the love you've shared with me and the advice you've given to me. I'm grateful for your support with the things I need and the funds and everything! I hope you guys are feeling your blessings from the Lord and I can't wait to tell you about the people in Korea who will be blessed because you guys sent me out here!

You know, the things I've learned the most in here are actually kinda weird. Like the blessings of goals and scheduling. The blessings of a healthy diet and sleep schedule. Just how to be social in general, because a lot of people I'm forced to hang out with, I normally wouldn't hang out with. I'm a lot more social than I ever have been, to types of people who I never would have thought I'd be friends with.
 
 


Honestly, I don't think I'm going to ever be the same again. I've learned how to work so hard. I sometimes wish that I could go watch a movie or take a nap, perhaps play a video game or read a fictional book. Normally, those desires would work in me and I'd probably go turn on Netflix imagining a false truth that I'd actually get back to cleaning my room after just one show. Here not only is that option non-existing, but so is the desire. Doing absolutely nothing but stare at a screen for 2 and a half hours seems like such a huge waste of time! Oh my gosh! I could have learned 50 vocab in 2 and a half hours. I could have memorized a whole lot of Korean phrases on prayer or recognizing the Holy Ghost plus good scriptures to go with those lessons in such time like that. If you gave me 2 more hours to use in my day, you bet I'd use it, holy cow! I only have 2 years out in Korea to find people who could truly use God's help in their life. My mission concerns things of eternal importance, and there is nothing I could spend my time doing right now that would be worth more than serving this mission!
 
-- Elder Buckwalter
 
Oh oh oh oh oh Wait!!.....
Elder L. Tom Perry is coming to speak to the Missionaries here this Tuesday


 

Friday, October 18, 2013

First Letter from the MTC. P-Day is Friday!

Subject: What!? you guys haven't written me yet?
Date: October 18, 2013 11:49:08 AM MDT

So I came in the first day and I didn't have a companion!~
I've been in a three-some since Wednesday and supposedly "Elder Bishop" from England is coming today, but I haven't met him yet.
When I arrived my teacher would avoid English at all costs. His name is Christensen Hyung jei neim (Brother 형제님). He's been off his mission 10 months and is teaching us heavily so as to prepare us for a practice investigator tomorrow. I admit that I am ahead of everyone else in Korean, yet I've seen everyone participate in the gift of tongues and focus heavily on the language. I know that those Elders and Sisters in my district were called of the Lord and are prepared with the gifts they will need to be successful as missionaries in Korea. They are all remarkable and are armed with firm testimonies. 

One of the Elder's in my district is a red-head who beat-boxes just as good as me. We basically hang out with our district all the time: lunch, class, district meetings, fake investigator practice, ect.

I've absorbed an intense amount of information in these my first 3 days. Mostly I've learned that despite all that is expected of us and among all the things we have to do, the most important thing to have on your mind is your purpose which is to invite others to come unto Christ. We're not learning Korean to know the language, we are learning Korean so that we can be better tools in the Lord's hands for engaging in his work. If the foremost thing in my mind is to keep the Holy Ghost as my companion and guide, super hard things are then possible. 

I'm grateful for the spirit here in the MTC. I've never felt anything safer, more worthy, or more focused then this environment at the  MTC. There is no time for sin or distractions. Everywhere we go is planned out and everything we do we do in the name of Christ. You can feel the Holy Ghost as if it were a silent member of your party, just walking with you and brushing you and your companions shoulders constantly. My heart is always warm. The only problems we think of are, how to prioritize our time, or how to make it better fir the investigator, things like that.

I recommend figuring out how Dear Elder, the website, works.
http://www.dearelder.com/

Most of the Elder's in my residence hall use that. If you write through that website, I'll get the letter in the mail the same day you submit it to their site. Mail-day is every day... and hearing my district leader say, "Mail's here Elders!" doesn't follow with that skipping heart reaction from me as it does all the other Elder's. I feel a little down that I won't be able to hear from you until on Fridays / P-days by checking this mail as I am doing now.

I love you guys, and I'm working hard. The spirit is strong and I have so much to do to prepare... everyday is full.  Thanks for your prayers.

Elder Buckwalter




Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Wesley at the Logan Temple before entering the MTC.

Last weekend Wesley entered the temple for the first time.  He chose the Logan Temple and it was a very wonderful experience for Wesley and his family.  





Elder Wesley Buckwalter is ready to start his mission.